Self Esteem

One thing a lot of girls struggle with is low self esteem. We are so busy comparing ourselves to others that we fail to recognize our own gifts and talents. It occurred to me in prayer a few days ago that lacking self esteem is not only an offense against ourselves but also an offense against God. God does not make mistakes and he made us just how he wants us. Our true worth and value come from the fact that we are made uniquely special in God's image and likeness. Our worth comes from His love for us. When we fail to recognize our worth we are suggesting that God screwed up or that he is mistaken in loving us. It is up to us to fight the temptation to devalue ourselves because to our maker we are absolutely worthy of all love (sin aside).

And don't be afraid to be proud of the gifts and talents God has given you. Saint Therese is a perfect example of true humility. She said, "a flower would not say that it stinks." Humility is being completely honest; not boastful, because the credit from our goodness belongs to God, but honest and unafraid of who God has made us to be. On her death bed Therese told her sisters that they were taking care of a Saint. She was absolutely right!